So me and my man have been together for a little more than 4 years. In the past our sex life was amazingggg! Like best sex I’ve ever had kind of amazing. And honestly ever since he started working construction it’s gone down hill.

I try to be understanding in the sense that his body is forever tired, but boy literally turns me down every single time I try to come on to him. And I’m not even exaggerating. Like dude I can ride you? And your fingers ain’t broken? But I guess he has too much pride. Idk. So I’ve gotten to the point where he just has to come to me when he got the energy cause being turned down (every time) don’t feel good (in my opinion).

Whenever we do decide to get intimate (him knowing my body) acts like he don’t wanna give me head. And always wants to do the same position (69). Even when I told him (more than 3 times) that it wasn’t a position I preferred (because his beard be scratching on the top of my coochi. With his head upside down like that) But he did it anyway. It felt good at first but I can’t ignore the scratching. So you know I tried to ride his face a little to get me started. But he told me to not do that (i have a fat ass so idk if I was suffocating him but damn can’t I take control of something?) I’m not the type of female that’s gonna fake my orgasms. So I told him I’m uncomfortable. And we moved into basically the same position just laying down which I wasn’t pleased with (personally sex shouldn’t be so stressful) like why can’t we take care of each other individually? (Cause am I the only female that likes to be eaten out separately from sucking dick? I just feel like you can pay attention more and enjoy the moment more) idk but me being honest. Plus I always tell him “I’m a oven not a microwave”... But basically I told him again that I was uncomfortable. And he ended up just giving up and getting irritated with me for being honest. Like if you know I’m not getting off, Do something different! Especially when I’m telling you... like this isn’t a race to see which one of us could cum faster cause MY COOCHIE IS MEANT TO BE SPOILED!

Y’all think I’m being too honest? Im not trying to ruin his man hood, but idk how else to tell the man. Like I’m telling you cause I love you.

And I know this boy can please me so I just feel like he’s just half assing sex , when it’s supposed to be not only meaningful but pleasurable for BOTH of us.