I posted this below a month ago

Whenever my bf and i get into an argument, he puts his hands on me.

Grabs me by the arm. Yesterday, he pulled me out of the car by my arm (it was parked) cause he wanted me to get out but i wanted to talk about our issue. I was also in front of the door and he opened it pushing the door against me. Hes held me down by my wrists when ive wanted to leave cause i didnt want to be around him. Weve been together 7 months. Always tells me he will never hurt me or says he feels bad for touching me that way but does it again.

He was abused as a child. Will it get worse if i stay?

Last night is below

I ended up staying with him

Things were fine until last night until we had a dissagreement, i wanted to leave for space. He told me no, kept standing in front of door, telling me that im not going anywhere, then when i got close to door he put his hand around my neck, pushing me towards bed slammed me down on it choking me, then held my arms down tightly, saying in response to me asking "whatre you doing" with tears in my eyes, he said he wanted me but wasnt gonna act on it (i like it rough but hes never choked me during sex) my neck was sore and he wasnt hard? He was saying, if you think i hurt you im gonna go turn myself in. He was angry when he choked me. I want to believe hes not an abuser

Do you think he was being truthful and wanted to have sex?

Do you think he was trying to guilt trip me by saying he was gonna turn himself in over what i thought?