I’ve given my boyfriend oral 4 times now, he hasn’t finished once. I feel it’s too soon for penetration so we stick with oral. Every time has lasted at LEAST 10 minutes and after that i just get tired, and he says he can tell when i’m tired by the way i come up and every time he notices he tells me “it’s okay you can stop if you want” and apologizes for how long he lasts. It messes with my confidence bc i’ve given head before to other guys and the have always finished, why won’t he? the second time he told me it was okay to stop if i was tired and i told him how i felt, i told him that i feel bad and feel like i’m not doing something right and he told me “no no don’t think that, it was great, i came close twice, i just last long, sorry”. The thing is he never tells me when he’s close so i told him that next ime he needs to tell me in the moment. Next time happens and he tells me like twice, but STILL i couldn’t do enough to get him to finish!? If this has happened to anyone or anyone has any tips for giving oral PLEASE let me know. I feel like i’m not doing enough for him and wish i could just get him to finish. As dumb as it may sound, i’d feel so accomplished.