How did you know?

Question

How did you know it was God telling you to be with your husband/boyfriend/fiancé? Did you feel a strong pull toward them? Did you pray? How did you know? I’m sorry.

Answer

We always felt a draw to each other way before we even dated. All of our priorities and life goals lined up and we got to know as much about each other as we could. There is definitely a distinct divine guiding when it is that right. You’ll notice that no matter what you go through, you’ll get through it together.
I can say with confidence that God put him in my life exactly when I needed it and I will never be able to thank them enough 💝
PS it helps if you know (as specifically as you can) what you want/need in a husband. For example, I really need affection and someone who is okay with me constantly asking for reassurance. I also can’t stand arrogance. So if you write a list of wants, needs, and deal breakers, you can refer back to it whenever you feel “in love” and see if you’re on the right track. 
PPS you BOTH have to want the same things! It will never work if only one of you is trying to make it work. Don’t force it!

Answer

Yes I prayed for my husband (before I had met him) I told God specifics on what I was looking for 😆 it felt like I was being  a little greedy with what I said I wanted but I think God responded with “Challenge accepted!”
And when my husband walked into the room a few weeks later, I felt a push to talk to him. I NEVER approach men. But something just kept drawing me to him. We exchanged numbers and when we met later that week for our first date I knew “this is my husband.” And here we are 3 years later, 1 kid and another on the way!

Answer

I fell in love at first sight in my mid 20s and he did as well. I was a Christian and he said he was too. We married quickly because we “knew”, he was the man of my dreams and everyone I knew loved him, we didn’t want to break celibacy. Some of my friends had known him for years. My pastor gladly married us. After a few months of marriage he started to act different and then became increasingly abusive. We tried counseling etc. but ultimately divorced as he was getting worse. I was afraid for my life.
So my advice is- do not rush based off emotions. Feelings are nice but it takes time to build trust and to judge a person’s character.

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