My house is not nasty by all means. We get the regular mess. Yknow what I’m talking about moms...when you clean up and your little tornado toddler comes and throws all his toys everywhere lol anyways.... do you think it’s right that -his words- “you should have to wake up by 7 am cause that’s when I have to go to work, it’s not fair that I get to go to work at 7 in the morning” this is not an argument on keeping the house clean it’s on that I should have to wake up that early even though my son doesnt wake up until like 10:30 11:30 some days. I like to clean when I start my day then tidy up once my son is asleep so it’s clean in the AM. We don’t have a car so basically my fun is cleaning the house lol should I have to wake up at that time just to clean up that early when the house is already basically clean? I like to wait until my son takes a nap or something or when I get up to take a shower cause that’s how I start my day a shower clothes clean. That’s my routine. This man is the type that if things don’t go his way it’s the highway. He treats his parents the same. I don’t think that’s fair. I’m pregnant and I’m bleeding so the dr told me to take it easy for a little while until I get check next week.. being pregnant is not a reason to be lazy but I know you moms get how tiring it is... my toddler still doesn’t sleep through the night he does for the most part but will wake up once or twice...do you think I’m being lazy? Be honest, be harsh I want the truth from a outsider. I will admit no I don’t jump everyday to deep clean the house. I feel gross because I’m bleeding so some days I do feel depressed and want to rest for the day because I’m scared for my baby. Does that make me lazy? Do you think I’m using bleeding as an excuse? We clean the house for us.

Side note: we’re not married we’ve been together 5 years and he thinks that it’s not fair to him and makes it seem like it’s all me. Y’all are right I’ve know how he is and still choose to be with him. He has me starting to think it’s all me...and that I’m being lazy. I think that it doesn’t matter what time I wake up as long as it’s getting done. It shouldn’t matter.