Baby kicks and bumps

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Im certain this has been asked in a variety of ways but when I search my app isn’t loading right now. Im 18wks two days and don’t think I have felt baby yet which I know is ok. I also don’t feel like belly is showing well yet which I also know is ok. My question is: did you ever not feel baby one day and wake up the next and know it was baby or were movements more gradual.?? And Do you feel like your bump grew slowly or like you woke up one day and were like wow.?? I have a small pooch that isn’t hard but more just feels like Im

Gaining fat hahah. Ftm here, bear with me :)