So my husband says he wants to move out of his parents house but is making 0 effort. I look at different options every day and make calls etc. But I work way more than him so he has so much more time to do something than I do. He gets angry and upset with me when I try talking to him about it though. I'm always stressed and have anxiety attacks often (sometimes all day for days at a time it feels like tbh) we've been married for 2 years and have been in his parents house for over a year now and I'm DONE. I don't want to leave without my husband obviously how do I get him to help me get a move on with this it's very hard doing it alone. He's very lazy and barley works but he wants a different job just doesn't try at all. What do I do? Please help

Ps. IF he does do anything, it's for his parents. I understand they're family but as much as he denies it he definitely chooses them over me.