My boyfriend is 8 years older than I am he is 38 I am 30.... I have a 5 year old daughter in which her dad didn’t want her and has nothing to do with her......my boyfriend has 4 kids that are for sure his and 1 that may or may not be his but the girl left and hasn’t been in touch....and he has 1 that he claims even tho she is not biologically his....so in total he has 5-6 kids.....all by different mothers....and none of the mothers take care of the kids....I take care of mine and do it without child support.....I didn’t want anymore kids, I was happy with my baby girl....he obviously didn’t want anymore kids.....I am 11 weeks pregnant now and when I found out I was so scared to tell him....we got into an argument and I told him (awful timing and not the way to really do it but I did ....) he called me all kinds of names.....I won’t name them off....let’s just say he was furious.....I couldn’t get rid of the baby I went to the dr at 8 weeks and heard the heart beat....I told him I couldn’t kill my baby and that caused the second wave of it.....he has told his parents and some of his other family and they are happy that we are having a baby he thought they’d be so mad but are happy l thought they’d be mad too I knew they didn’t want anymore grandkids they had enough.....but now he’s back to the man I fell in love with...he even went down and talked to the baby tonight....I’ve never had that before my daughters dad made it clear he didn’t want her and that was it we have been on our own for the last almost 6’years now...I’m so relieved that he came around....everyone deals with stress and emotions different words hurt but aren’t always meant the way it comes out sometimes you have to be patient and try not to let things get you down they can always turn around!!!!