I have 19 month old girl and she always follws me to the bathroom and we have our own little routine, she hands me the toilet paper since we keep a drawer full( if I keep it out on the roll she unrolls the whole thing so i keep it semi hidden), she examines the toilet and knows how to flush. She has her own little Potty that is identical to the real thing, it even has its own flusher, but she wont use it. Shes not great about talking especially if i ask her if she went potty in her diaper or if she wants to go on her chair, its like she doesn't understand me or is ignoring me. All she does with the potty is sit on it time to time while im going to the bathroom and thats if i ask her to otherwise she just plays with the mini toilet and carries it around the house.. Shes also on the ornery side and never listens to me, and is always throwing stuff at me or hitting. Help!