My husband and I met in university 7 years ago when we both studied political science, then he studied history, forensics, philosophy and some English. I continued to study French, law and economics. He graduated and started working and we didn't see each other much, but had great date days when he was off. I'm four years younger than him so I graduated four years after him. I had just gotten a great job when I got pregnant with our first and now when I was planning to go back to work we found out I'm pregnant again. Ever since I got pregnant with our first I feel like we've stopped having conversations. I love discussing the world, you know the deep discussions about theories and opinions and stuff, not just the every day talk. But I feel like we've lost that. I want to have it back. I have talked to him about it and he says he misses it too, but that he just doesn't have anything exciting to talk about. He works a lot and needs to talk a lot during work so he's "talked out" when he gets home. He also says he doesn't read much anymore due to lack of time and this he isn't learning a lot and doesn't have all this exciting things to talk about anymore. I'm at home with our first and he's pretty much all the conversation I get all day so I'm dying to talk to my man when he gets home. But I also don't have much exciting things to discuss because I don't have the time to read much or watch documentaries either. Also when he gets home and have a day off he's really tired. It's not a deal breaking thing. We have a great relationship and everything is good, I just miss the talks. How do we bring the conversations back? The ones that is more than just about daily life and all?