Me and SIL do not get along and im sick of drama and bull shit we didnt talk for months and during hoildays she approach me saying we are family and need to hang out more.... i am always on thin ice with that women...

This past sunday a friend of hers came to the house she notice i didn't speak to her friend so she question my about it... i was stupid and told her what her friend told mine 2 yrs ago about how my friend shouldnt trust me.. again this was 2 yrs ago, yesterday she called me up and said she called my friend to say why did u lie to my SIL my friend nevwr told u shit, so my friend denied EVERYTHING, so again my sil couldnt keep her mouth shut and just stired more shit.... bc me and her were fighting she didnt only call my friend to ask that 1 question but was trying to get out of my friend if i ever talked shit about her when we were argueing... i cant take it how would u handle this..

And yes when we are mad we talk about each other but i DGAF what she said about me but she has the nerve to call my friends asking questions, its lile she is looking for a way for us to argue again.

Its been 2+ yrs TTC and i believe until i dont get her out of my life she wil not stop adding stress to my life