please tell me i’m not the only one...

just had baby boy. love him to pieces.

before baby came, husband and i were struggling with getting along. stress from work, finances, pregnancy etc. we are doing much better, but he had been less and less affectionate for obvious reasons. says he’s not that affectionate, even though he used to be.

now with baby Wyatt here, my not affectionate husband is super affectionate with him. he shows me a little bit

too, but he lays there and stares at the baby and gives him tons of kisses and loves on him. which, on one hand, i totally love. i would so much rather him be like that than the opposite. but i’m slightly jealous, to the point of tears sometimes. i want affection too. is that so bad? i feel like i’ve been replaced.

please give me advice. if i say anything, it sounds like i’m complaining and jealous of a baby. maybe it will pass, this is all very new. baby is not even two weeks old.