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I understand how fertility is hard and watching everyone have children whether they are ready or not, it’s super hard! Both my sister AND sister in law are having babies almost exactly a year apart. It’s hard. I feel left out. I get worried I’m going to be a forever aunt. HOWEVER i would NEVER EVER EVER make my sisters feel any kind of bad because they have children! I find it very immature and selfish to put you in that position and trying to blame you. Do NOT blame yourself for the nature of things and how they went. If she wants to believe she had a miscarriage.. I mean.. let her. Maybe that’s what she hangs on to. She got pregnant before so she can do it again. We will never know if she was genuinely pregnant. I would take some time a part. I really would. You guys have known each other longer than you haven’t and should be able to say “hey I need space”. You guys are living completely different lives right now. You can only relate to a point now that you’ve experienced something huge that she hasn’t. It’s just the unfortunate roller coaster of emotions with infertility, growing up, and one day you’ll be able to talk about it. You’ll get through it. This is one of those things that just has to be let go of. It won’t have closure in the sense of did she have a miscarriage? But it will have closure in the sense of “we aren’t the same right now, and that’s okay”
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I can use some tips,I only have one friend after having kids and she’s going through infertility and she’s really sensitive when it comes to babies which I totally understand so when I was pregnant with my first she thought she could be pregnant so I told her to take a pregnancy test she was also late,she said it came back negative I told her sometime it takes time for it to come out positive and I guess she misinterpreted it in the phone thinking I said you are pregnant or something she later began having some bleeding and cramping and from then on thought she had a miscarriage and I feel like responsible for that I asked her later on how she thought she had a miscarriage and she said well you told me I did but that’s not what I said at all it’s been 2 years and she had told her family she had a miscarriage and I feel like I’m a terrible person for putting her through this pain and I’ve tried to tell her I never said such things but right now she’s going through infertility and is very emotional and I feel she might respond upset since she seems to get upset every time I talk about my girls but I mean they’re a big part of my life and maybe I am being inconsiderate but I don’t know? How would you go about this? She my only friend I’ve known her since kindergarten now we’re both 23?
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