So I’ve been giving it a lot of thought and I decided that other than my mom, sister, MIL, and SIL, I don’t want any other visitors right after I have baby. The reason being is that we are a military family and the closest family we have is about a 4 hour drive away which means that if they visited, they’d have to stay with us for a few days and I just wouldn’t feel like entertaining or hosting anyone during this time. I’m very adamant about using the first few months to bond with my newborn. The issue is that they are family from my husbands side. How do I mention it to him without sounding like a b? I love them, I really do. But I just don’t think I’ll have the energy for them when baby comes. They are visiting this weekend and I’m sure they will bring it up so I’d like to talk about it with my husband before they come so we are on the same page. Do you think I’m being unreasonable?