Gender reveal question

Melissa

Hi ladies,

My husband and I have differing opinions on when to find out the gender. I’m 10 weeks, 4 days and we just got back results of genetic screening. Baby looks good and they put the gender in an envelope. My husband wants to know right away. I wanted to wait until gender reveal around 18-20 weeks. However, I’ve had a lot of stress with work and losing my first cat. I think knowing gender will help me bond with the baby. Is it odd for us to know and do a gender reveal for our friends later on? This is our miracle baby after 3 failed IUIs and a failed <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>. I’ve always wanted a fun gender reveal party! I love throwing parties and thought this would be a good excuse! Thoughts?