Um so my bf is spending the night at his ex’s dorm... so background: they were friends then they dated twice and now they are best friends... she’s been around before me and my bf really trusts her and i respect that... ive had my issues with her in the past but i told her that if we are both going to be in his life then we have to be okay with each other... we were going to hang out tonight but i couldn’t get him an invite to a party i was going to so he’s like “blank wants me to come over so we can talk bc she isn’t in a good frame of mind” i said it was okay bc i trust him... what i didn’t know was that they would be drinking and that he would be spending the night until he got there... honestly i just needed to get my emotions out somewhere... for some reason i just dont like this girl and everytime we are around each other she starts a problem between me and my bf im SICK OF IT... he told me once before that if i didn’t want him to be friends with her anymore then he wouldn’t but i never want to be that overbearing obsessive controlling gf ugh i just really hate this and i have so many emotions and fuck i hate this

UPDATE:

So after being silently bitter about we talked about it today and both agreed that the whole situation was a bad idea... we talked and decided that we just need to be up front with each other no matter what... i told him how i felt and he felt genuinely really bad... his heart is definitely always in the right place but my feelings are more important than hers bc i am HIS GF and he knows that... if he forgets it again than he can SURELY kick rocks with flip flops on... im so thankful for all the feedback i got!! I love yall so much and i took everything into consideration when speaking with my bf... were good now and hopefully it stays like that for a while :)