Should I be jealous?

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So my bf is two years younger than me and has 12 different sexual partners whereas I’ve only had 3. One of his sex partners was only that; a sexual partner. The thing is, they stayed really good friends and moved on from each other, the girl actually got married. Well, last night around 3 AM, this girl and my bf’s cousin show up and according to him, they only played video games and watched YouTube videos. I believe him, but then his cousin leaves and the girl stays the night. They didn’t sleep in the same room and I know that because he called me and slept on the phone with me, but she still slept in his bed. Should I be jealous or am I overthinking it?

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See I'm a little weird.1) I dont care if my partner plays his games that late or anything but hes home and alone when he does it. He can be on his headset with his friends on discord but no one is invited to just come over at 3 AM. To me that's a very inappropriate time to have anyone who is not in an emergency over. 2) I get that she was probably too tired to drive home but that means she needed to leave with the ride she came with. It's not appropriate that she stayed but your boyfriend was trying to be considerate so it's difficult to be too upset there. What may have transpired could totally be innocent, but it was still kind of not right in the first place. But that's me and my beliefs over the matter. Some people are totally fine with this kind of stuff and would feel like you being upset is over reacting. I just was raised by people who worried tons about proper etiquette so it's a little stuck with me.

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She shouldn’t be staying over or in his bed at all. It doesn’t matter if he shared or not. If she’s married this entire situation isn’t right

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She slept in his bed?

That’s the biggest issue I see here.. I wouldn’t be jealous but I’d definitely be a bit worried. I think you should talk to him about it asap, tell him you weren’t comfortable with that.

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I wouldn’t necessarily say you should be jealous, but you should be slightly concerned. I would just talk to him and tell you that definitely does not make you feel comfortable especially considering their past together.

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Why wasn’t she in her own bed with her husband?

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It warrants a conversation

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That’s not okay.

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I wouldn’t be jealous but I would be angry.

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Disrespectful

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This is just wrong. She’s wrong and so is he. She shouldn’t be sleeping over a guys house that clearly has a girlfriend AND she’s married as well. This is fucked. I’d be pissed off.

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