Do you think there’s a time frame to be love/be in love?

Question

I’ll admit that before I got into relationships, I felt I wouldn’t say or feel love until years in. But w my SO I am starting to feel like I love them in a matter of months... like I love him but I’m not in love w him yet.
I’m still relatively new to relationships but can any of you ladies (21+) preferably give me insight and advice on relationships?
How do you deal w conflict? Wanting consistency? Sufficient and open communication?
Thx 🤗

Answer

I started dating my now fiancé when I was 14/15 - I’m 25 now so we’re 10 years in.
The way I see it is you need to have a good partnership, an understanding of what each-other wants from the relationship and basically above all else just to communicate with each other. If you can’t communicate even early on you’ll have a hard time truly understanding each other.
My relationship was definitely no ‘love at first sight’ love story, as we were just a pair of stupid kids :) we’ve had to work at it and now looking back I can’t ask for a better position to be in with my best bud/partner in crime 🥰

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And in terms of conflict, again find a way of dealing with negative energy and works for both of you.
It makes me laugh as me and my fiancé can’t even seem to follow up an arguments these days as we went through a phase of winding each other up with a silly buzz word when one of us got antsy about something. Now if we start any conflict the second that buzz word comes out we both crack up laughing and the conflict seems to be done with. Sounds crazy but it works for me 😂🤷🏼‍♀️

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I don’t believe the “in love” thing all that matters is that everyday you grow together and all their quirks make you love them even more. I love my husband more and more everyday even when I am frustrated with him. It’s all about the little things that you do for each other and trust plays a huge part in a relationship. You don’t automatically or even at all fall “in love” that is for movies.

Do you think there’s a time frame to be love/be in love?

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