I'm never spontaneous around my boyfriend because he doesn't like it and he has high standards for everything. He has certain ways of how to dress, talk in public, communicate and everything when I don't. Whenever we travel together, I find my self pressured to meet his expectations of how to do things "right" when I don't have any way of doing things. I'm just spontaneous and I go with the flow. I'm no longer myself around him which makes my trips with him less fun. Even once, we were trying to take a photo and a lady offered to take it for us and in a mean way he told her "No thanks" when she was very cute and nice but he just doesn't like it when people offer to help strangers.

I don't know what to do

Help