No sex because of after pain....

Every time me and my bf have sex, we could go on for an hour or more. But he won’t finish! Each time this happens he complains about pain in his balls. Which I tell him it could be because of that and he’s in denial!!! Blue balls are a thing right?!?!

We haven’t had sex on 3 weeks because of this!! But yet he wants a BJ and to finish off a hand job. I’m starting to run out of options on how to get him to actually wanna go back to having sex without thinking he will get that pain.

Haven’t tried having sex and finishing him off by BJ/HJ