35 weeks and checked cervix

Nancy • My daughter Ava Grace is my world! 05.04.16 Expecting March 2019

I’m 35 weeks and just got my cervix checked cause I had some cramping but she said my cervix is soft but now dilated yet! Kinda disappointed cause I’ve been on my feet 4-5 days a week waitressing and having extreme pelvic pain where I feel like the baby is gonna come out soon but now this gave me no hope!

I went to 41 weeks with my first and hoping I dont go to 41 weeks with this one 😩 anyone else?