Blow job problems

I think it’s easy to worry because there’s a lot of pressure surrounding what you “should” and “should not” do during a blowjob, but really, if you just give it a try it will come naturally to you. Do what you’re comfortable with. As a girl who has TMJ and can’t deepthroat or open my jaw for a very long time, I still manage to give my boyfriend what he calls the best head he’s ever had - it’s so much more than techniques like twisting or swallowing or anything else you read in Cosmo. Half the appeal is just having someone you love do something selfless to please you. You just kind of have to find the positions and techniques that feel right to you.

So I was super nervous to give my boyfriend head. Even though I had done it before. I hadn’t for years. I was honest with him about how nervous I was and told him to give me pointers as we went and I wouldn’t be offended because I wanted it to be amazing for him. And he actually didn’t give me any pointers at all. And said I give amazing head and now he’s obsessed with it. I just did what I enjoyed doing to him and then followed his body cues and his moans to see what he liked and don’t forget about the balls.

just be completely honest with him, he’ll let you know if it feels good or not, and what to work on. talk with him about this, it’ll be so helpful! good luck!

Honestly just do it. It kinda comes naturally once you start. And afterward just communicate with him and ask him what he liked / didn’t like

So I actually asked the guy I’m sleeping with if it’s possible to give bad head the other day, lol. This is the response he gave me: “Umm, yes, definitely.”That being said, here’s the tips I have to offer. If it’s not something you enjoy/want to do, don’t do it. It won’t be fun for either of you. If you’re worried about your teeth, keep your lips wrapped around them. Spit is definitely your friend. The wetter you keep things, the easier it is for you and the better it feels for him. Same goes for using your hands to help. Also, if you’re comfortable with it, maybe try watching some videos to get a general idea of what a good bj looks like, and then try to emulate it with him.

I don’t think you should worry too much.. if you feel comfortable around him, you should take risks and try new things with him.. or talk to him before you go in