Work work work

I’m 16 weeks pregnant. My husband and I both work full time. We’ve been married almost 2 years and together since high school. My husband is in the military and I completely support him in everything he does. What is tough is how much crap he goes through with work but it’s almost like everyday now all he talks about is work and how much he hates his commander, granted his commander doesn’t think things through and is making things tough on them. It is just difficult for me since all his talks and complains about is work, and I just want to not think about work when I’m not at work. With his line of work it’s just not so easy for him to not think about it 😔 he definitely tries to explain things to me but when I try to have conversations with him about other things I can tell he isn’t listening :/ ugh. This is just me finally ranting