Really need some positivity

I know this TTC thing is really hard for everyone and I know I am not alone or special with how sad I feel every month when AF comes.....but does anyone else get super upset when you post something about a symptom you are having for some advice and people comment and they’re like “Definitely AF” or “probably just your period.” I mean, yeah, sure, they are most likely speaking the truth but I don’t know.....it just gets me so down! I always appreciate everyone’s opinion. It just sucks when it’s not what you want to hear 🥺.