So my husband is great in bed and we definitely know how to finish each other and get creative, but lately just to experiment i want to involve a dildo the one that also massages your clit but haven't purchased it yet just because idk what he'll think. Im more of the freak in the sheets and I've bought cock rings, vibrators but little beginner things lol and we've used them before but not as often and he will just go a long with it but with a dildo i dont know if he will think im replacing him or making him insecure which is not the case at all but how do i bring it up?