self conscious about my vagina

so basically i’m starting to hang out with guys a lot, i’m 16 so all we do is make out mostly or ill give them head. but i’ve been starting to get asked if i wanna get eaten out or fingered or they’ll put their hand on my vagina but i always say no or stop them only because i’m really self conscious about down there... like i want them to finger me or eat me out so so bad because ill be horny but i just can’t let them because i’m scared that i’m gonna smell bad or taste bad or they’re gonna get freaked out because i get discharge a lot etc... just the other week my guy put his hand down there but i new i was wet bc i was sweating (ya know it’s always hella warm between the thighs) plus i had discharge so my thong was wet, i’m not sure what to do because i wanna start experiencing new things like this but i’m so worried that they’re gonna think my vagina is gross.. is there any tips you guys have about smelling good or making sure it’s clean down there?