Why cant people just be understanding of your wishes?? My husband and I decided we didnt want anyone in the hospital until AFTER the baby was born. We broke the news to the in laws yesterday and my MIL threw a fit about it. She says she just wont even come at all (fine by me)...and it is just irritating. We want the time to ourselves to bond with the baby and I dont want people standing outside the door listening to me give birth. What is the huge deal of wanting privacy??