Hurt..
So I’m 30 weeks pregnant. Haven’t wanted to have sex with my boyfriend/haven’t had sex since 27 weeks. It’s just uncomfortable and not pleasurable. And the last two weeks he has been starting fights with me and just being a jerk in general for no reason. Like this morning he just woke up with a piss poor attitude and was being a prick. So I told him he needs to quit acting like this or I’m done and he can go back to his friends house and we are done. Then I left to take care of my car issues and he messaged me randomly about how he can’t get an Uber with cash. So I just asked him wtf his problem was and why he has been acting this way and he said it’s because I haven’t been showing him enough love or smiling enough with him??? That he is unhappy because i haven’t been loving?? Like wtf?? I work 7 fucking days a week. I’m exhausted and 30 weeks pregnant. Every minute I’m not working he is with me. I never get time to myself and I’m constantly trying to make HIM happy. I’ve been feeling depressed and upset by how he has been acting towards me and have told him this multiple times! Yet he ignores MY feelings?? Like i cant take this anymore. It’s a constant circle with him. I love him but I feel like with him acting like this is making it our relationship fade away /: he knows im stressed about child birth and school and work and he works less than 40 hrs a week.... like he can’t give me a fucking break and try to understand how I’m feeling or where I’m coming from.. like is it seriously that hard?? I don’t know how to get him to understand that I’m not purposely “not smiling” around him. He just has been giving me attitude about everything and it feels like HE is the pregnant one and having hormonal mood swings..
I don’t know what to do anymore..
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