My husband’s sex drive is lower than mine anyway, and now I have preggo hormones the gap between our sex drives is huge.

I’ve tried to let him know in many ways that I’m not sexually satisfied, and he just got offended rather than addressing it.

Tonight, after confirming that he has been self satisfying(sexually), he finally admitted that he finds me “less sexual” right now.

He said it’s partly how I look (because my having a human in my tummy is “weird”), partly what and how much I’m eating (eating what I can vs organic steamed meat and veg I assume) and partly because I’m not being as active as he would like (I’m still working full time, I am exhausted).

I’m so, so sad. I’m not looking for solutions - I don’t think there are any which completely resolve the issue but I just had in mind that I would be even more sexy to him as the mother if his unborn baby- it breaks my heart that it’s worked the opposite way 😔

I want to feel attractive and feminine- this has really knocked my confidence.

I’m doing my best. I’m really trying.

So sad.

Anyone else dealing with something similar?