so my friend starting dating this guy about six or seven months ago, and it’s already turned so toxic. i dealt with that for years and i really do t want the same outcome for her. what can i do to help her realize that she deserves better. this guy calls her trashy, tells her that she needs him, she’ll never find anyone better etc. every now and then she gets brave and stands up for herself but he always convinces her that she’s the bad person always. there’s a ton of other things. what have you done with other people to help them realize, or what should i do. please help me.