When he's not in the mood...

Question

Married for 6 years, no kids. Been ttc for nearly 2 years with 2 mcs...(one was a 6 month ordeal)
I don't tell him when I'm ovulating because it's been too much pressure before. 
I'm fertile and hes been so stressed lately we havent BD. What would you do? Wait til the next cycle or explain it? I feel like it happens in my fertile week every month! 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️😭

Answer

You gotta talk to him. Figure out what is going to work for both of you. If he doesn’t want to know when you’re fertile but wants a baby, then he’s gotta he open to bd when you suggest it. Good luck!

Answer

I stopped telling mine too. It just stresses him out, causes problems (like puts pressure on him and it’s like a chore: not fun). I’m at the point like I have to have faith, it will happen. I’m still tracking my ovulation to see what my body is doing. We are pretty active, sex every other day or so, so I’m likely to hit ovulation week. My advise is not to say anything to him, and just have fun with it.

Answer

I had to stop telling my husband I’m fertile! It made him stressed and like he had to complete the job! I know it’s hard on us women.

Answer

Sometimes it gets like that. I try to schedule us a date night when it is so we can get out without our kids and reconnect alone. Also if I come to bed in lingerie instead of usual pjs he gets ready real fast lol. Ttc can definitely become a chore and we’ve got to spice it up sometimes or take the focus off baby making.

When he's not in the mood...

Let's Glow!

The Top Baby Tracker App: Embrace New Beginnings with Tender Care

The Top Fertility Tracker App: Your Path to Achieving Pregnancy

The Top Pregnancy App: Nurturing Your Journey to Motherhood

The Top Period Tracker for Empowering Your Menstrual Health Journey