Baby Shower Confusion

Ja

So my son is 16 months and I’m currently pregnant with baby #2. Now I gotten different opinions but how do y’all feel about having another baby shower if the gender was different then your first? A lot of people was saying just do a baby shower but i had a old school family member tell me you only get 1 baby shower unless a tragedy happened. 🤔 Not sure how i feel about that.