When certain moments trigger you

Question

Today I found my Bun in the Oven Shirt along with the maternity clothes I had bought for our baby. 
But we don’t have a baby anymore and I just sat there and bawled. I miss my baby. I want him back so bad. 
Should I throw out the shirt or keep it for another baby? All I can think is this was for him not some new baby.

Answer

You do whatever you’re comfortable with. As for me, that’s just not how I coped with my 6 day old angel’s loss. I donated all his clothes and any of my favorite maternity clothes. For me, it’s more like there are so many other baby and maternity clothes out there when I was to God willing be pregnant again. I feel I have enough triggers in this world, especially when I can burst in tears with no trigger reason at all. Kind of a “choose your battle” thing for me, I guess. It sucks. All of it. But.. all we can do is figure out any way we can make ourselves even just a little stronger to get through our days..

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I have too, baby clothes. I had my first miscarriage at 7 weeks last May. And I bought a cute shirt to show his daddy, but then I lost him. Now in November I miscarriage the second one. I’m sorry for your lost, but I will keep my shirts. One day my miracle baby will wear them all

Answer

Keep it, you don’t know how you will feel later.

Answer

Keep it, it will be a special memory for later on. Just put it away somewhere that you don’t have to see unless you want to

When certain moments trigger you

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