When did you feel actual baby movements? I'm 20 wks on Thursday with my second and I've felt little kicks quite low or near the sides but as time goes on I am really starting to think I have it. First I felt at 15wks and then only got stronger then on and then I felt flutters this time at 12+4 for a couple weeks and now they are really off and on! I have anxiety and I'm driving myself mad with it! I don't feel that connection with this baby as I did my first either and was really hoping that once I felt proper movements it would hit me but it really hasn't because I've done nothing but worry!