I’m 5ft 7 and I’m taller than all my friends I feel like a giant standing next to them abd if I ever decided to wear heels around then Id feel so huge.Also I’m so tired of hearing “you’re tall for a girl”

My boyfriend is 6ft and I feel like he would prefer me if I was a lot shorter than him. Feel so insecure about it and feel like I’m not feminine. Please tell me if not the only one who hates being tall.