I have been married to a man in the military for 4 years and been together for a total of 6 years. He has been cheating on me off and on for that entire length of time. Two years ago I couldn’t handle it and in the middle of a breakdown I cheated on him once because I was so hurt and angry. He found out about it and used that as an excuse to cheat on me even more because of “what I did”, yet he never wants to be accountable for his own actions. I ’m just wondering if anyone else on here has ever dealt with infidelity issues like this? People never talk about it but there has to be more people out there that this has affected. I feel so alone and it would help if someone else could relate.