Hey guys, I’m kind of confused on what to do and want some advice ☺️ all advices are welcome, just not rude ones lol but here it goes:

So I was on a dating app and this attractive guy sent me a message. He seems like a decent guy because of not asking me for nudes and sex so I decided to meet up with him and hang out. Keep in mind, we met on the second day of talking. But to me, it was an amazing hangout. We talked about a lot of things and came to find out that we have similar interests. After this we met up two more times and it was amazing as the first time

Thought the 2nd and 3rd time meeting, he would seem like he want something serious and that’s what I’ve been searching for. Of course I told him about what I want to because he did the same. We had deep conversations and everything.

I thought he was serious too because he told me that before we get into anything, he wants me to know that he’s going to the Military and now with me in the picture it complicates that for him... I was really starting this might go somewhere

BUT!

He didn’t message me for almost a whole day, which Ik a lot of things can come into play because he is 6 years older than me so (I’m 19 btw) I don’t take it personally but this time I did because when he was not messaging me, he was on the dating app. And I also know that we’re not together so he’s not obligated to stay faithful with me although it would be nice. But when I messaged him and ask him if hes not serious then tell me and I’ll move on with my day. His response was, “I’m sorry (my name) I haven’t gotten back to you ...I just back got to my phone just now I left it in my truck last night and my dad had my truck”.

This is one of the possible reason but I was just iffy because why all of a sudden when I message him, this message came back so fast. And if his phone really was in the truck and just got it back then why did his account says active on the dating app that we met...

Idk what to do. Any thoughts? I know that I’m thinking about this a lot because I just don’t want my feelings to be belittled. I’m very protective over my feelings and emotions because I’m done with playing games so I just want you guys to understand this first before judging me very hard 😂 my feelings have been played with and taken for granted, everything, you name it, that’s why I am the way I am.

But please, let me hear your thoughts 😊