I get that he does the physical labor all day but then he gets to sleep midnight to 6am uninterrupted. And last night he got from 10-6 meanwhile I have been up every 2 hours with the baby since 10pm and I will continue to do so till he gets home from work at 6pm . I really don't think he should be allowed to complain about how tired he is , to the point of WHINING. You're a grown ass man with responsibilities, make some coffee and pull up your panties dude . Not like he even has to make the pot of coffee cause I did that around 4am after I put the baby back to sleep SO THAT HE WOULDNT HAVE TO. Sorry for ranting guys I kinda want to wring his neck this morning.

Oh my fuck and as I typed that last line he comes in our room and tells me he doesn't think he's gonna go into work today.

(At this point I will add that we're hurting for money, really hurting) I ask him why ? He says his head hurts and ask him how that warrants taking a day off, there's extra strength ibuprofen in the bathroom go take some. He proceeds with "I haven't taken off one day at this job" (incorrect he took off the day after our car got hit cause he couldn't drive it and took off 3days when the baby was born ) and how he's made himself look pretty good at work so if he wants a day off he will take a day off and "it's not a decision that anyone but him gets to make "

Now I'm pissed. Dude we've been trying to save for a car for almost 9 months and everytime we get close something happens we have to use it and we have to start over , we can't move out of our tiny studio (housing and 2adults a baby 2 big dogs and 3cats )because we're broke, and you think you can just take a day off because you MFKN HEAD HURTS ?!?! And then RHEN he says I'm making my 40 hours this week either way " what money are YOU bringing in " I said yes babe let's go there because I just had a baby and major surgery 13 days ago so let me just hop right up and head back to work today to cover your ass so you can stay home with a headache.

Oh my fuck that made me so mad. Thankfully he left the room and I heard him start his car so I know he's going to work but just damn dude why ??? Why do you feel like you get to complain ? I worked for 34 weeks of being pregnant getting sick up to 22 times a day INCLUDING at work , headaches , hips splitting , back hurting, agonizingly tired and you want to stay home for a mfkn headache. Then be a douche about it when I tell you you're ridiculous.

Apparently this is how my morning is gonna go. Btw during this while argument, I'm supposed to be sleeping because the baby is asleep and I will have to get up again with him in about 20 minutes.