Okay this is baby #4 for us. We had showers for the first 3. Byt the 3rd baby we only had a shower for because my older kids are a 13 yr old boy and an 11 yr old girl. So we had nothing. Our 3rd baby was a boy. Well the 4th is a girl. We decided not to have a shower but a welcoming party because we believe all babies should be celebrated. We talked about doing it kinda like a diaper keg. Bring a pack of diapers get some alcohol. Plus we would have food and stuff. But we really want to celebrate our little girl being born. Is it stupid?