I have officially lost it. I am obsessed with tracking my cycle and taking vitamins and drinking teas...

My boyfriend says he feels pressured when I mention making a baby right before we have sex, or when he feels like I’m only trying to bang because it’s fertile week.

That’s not the case, I also just want to have sex with him. But the thought of a baby is always there.

How can I make this more fun and less like we’re doing work in a science lab? I need to chill, this is only month 3 of actually trying (with a year before of not preventing, which only led to one pregnancy that ended in miscarriage).