Went thru my BF phone he told her he loved her...

When I tell you I was so angry. I wanted to smother him in his fuckn sleep. I read FB messages of him telling another woman he wanted he to have his baby and another woman (who he will not quit talking to but insults her and swears he doesn't like her) told her happy birthday and he loves her and hopes her day is amazing. Do you know I literally said to him, I thought you told me yesterday that you only cared about me and the baby and that is who you love and you're not thinking about anyone else...he says, I have ex's who call and check on me and when they called me I told them about the baby. Do you know he next told me, I disrespected him and by going through his phone.

Mind you, he wants me to stop being friends with my ex's sister and not communicate with my ex at all, (which I get and I don't talk to) but will not cut off this woman I keep asking him to dismiss. this woman.

Was I wrong for going thru his phone and....

Would I be wrong to call and tell her about our kid...