Okay, so I just need some advise if I should tell my brother how his girl friend is treating my mom. My mom is a super sweet nosy women. My brothers have lived with her up until last year (they are 35,33&20) so she is having empty nest syndrome.

She likes to call all of us and give us useless advice. Best example my brother she told him you can make payments on having your teeth fixed. Useless we all know this but we are used to it we just say thanks mom.

Well my brothers girl friend who he has a 6 year old daughter with is a royal bitch to my mom. She recently decided since she has this new friend that my mom calling and giving my brother advice like that is invasion of their privacy.

We have an open door policy, we all have keys to each other’s home and are ALWAYS welcome to just walk in and hang out. Nothing new. She decided she didn’t like that so started locking the doors telling my mom she’s only welcome if she calls at least a week in advance. Mind you my mother bought this house for them so they didn’t have to pay rent on a home.

Recently she called me and was telling me how my mom wouldn’t let her hang pictures or paint their house. So I called my mom to find out why they would be that controlling. Well come to find out the GF him up at 75” tv in to the drywall not mounted to a stud and ripped down half the wall and called my mom saying they need to fix it since they own it 😒.

So she has now resorted to completely ignoring my mom calling a friend or family and loudly talking shit about my mom so she can hear her and can feel unwelcome.

So I love 4 states over and I want to get a plane ticket and kick her ass for disrespecting my mom. Since I can’t do that right now I figured my brother needs to know that his GF is a POS and treating my

Mother poorly. My mom doesn’t want to Involve him because she feels god will help her....god not-going to fix this chick a swift kick to the face will. This is only some of the crap she has done or has pissed me off.

Am I justified in calling my brother and butting in? This need to stop.