Hey everybody. If anybody has good advice or experience with this I would love some help. I have a sister who is 4 years older than me. She and her boyfriend have been together the same amount of time my fiancé and I have been together and they have been ttc for four months now. My fiancé and I have been only trying for one month (I’m not pregnant this month af came today). Anyways she is extremely jelous and angry that I am trying for a baby and I don’t know why. We always wanted children in our earlier 20s and we are very stable in our relationship and finances. She has even said to me that if I’m not pregnant this month I need to wait to try again because she doesn’t think it’s time for me to have kids. She has also said that she will be angry if I get pregnant before her because she’s my older sister and thats “not how it works”. I find that extremely frustrating and hurtful. Another thing she has said is that if I don’t get pregnant than it’s probably god saying I don’t need to have kids and that she thinks I am “forcing” it to happen (well wtf am I supposed to do sit and magically become pregnant lol). We are both adults and can make our own decisions. I think what bothers me most is that I am supportive of her and she expects me to be but she always tears me down and I wish I never told her in the first place. I thought she would be supportive and kind and we could go through our journeys together but I guess I was wrong. Any advice would be appreciated.