Husband and I have been married for 4 years, so we weren’t trying super hard to prevent. But one month he stopped pulling out, I was okay with it. I got pregnant and had our daughter in September. And then he told me about multiple times he cheated on my in our marriage and he wanted to restart. I asked him if that’s why he got me pregnant. And he said he did it so when he told me, I wouldn’t leave. Well guess what

**for those who wanted to know why he told me, he said he regretted it and wanted a new start. And a baby changed his perspective on life blah blah blah*

STILL LEAVING ASSHOLE

He was crying and begging me not to leave. I’m like pick yourself up off the floor, quit crying like a bitch. Because guess what? Your ass wasn’t crying while you were in bed with other women 😂

** For those saying I should stay with him: I understand what you’re saying. He did come to me on his own. He didn’t get caught. And if he had done that instead of getting me pregnant so I would stay, I would of considered working it out. We are very young (got married at 18) and I wasn’t perfect either. But getting me pregnant so I wouldn’t leave him is the main reason I can’t stay. It’s just so manipulative

***also, despite him being a bad husband, he is literally the best father to our daughter. So although I won’t be staying with him, I don’t plan on trying to keep him from her. It will be 50/50 as much as possible and I’m going to make sure she sees nothing but respect between her father and I 😊

***Lastly, I know it takes two to make a baby. But the reason it is messed up is because I thought we were having a baby because we loved each other and thought it was just time. I had no clue that he was doing it because he knew he was going to tell me about the cheating and thought it would keep me from leaving him. At the end of the day I’m actually thankful he did it though because I love my daughter more than anything ❤️

Thank you ladies for the love and support!