So I just got in a new relationship, we've been together for 2 weeks now. He is the sweetest and does so much for me and I love him. Yes, we've only been dating for 2 weeks and already love each other but only because we were close friends for 4-5 years before getting in a relationship. We've had feelings for each other for a long time. Anyway, every aspect of the relationship is great except for one small thing...and I know this is probably a very stupid reason to be upset but he refuses to go down on me and has never gone down on a woman before because "That's not my kinda thing." Which wouldn't be that much of an issue if he didn't ask me to go down on him all the freaking time..like you expect me to do it but you won't? Keep in mind i'm very clean down there and always keep it shaved. And it just hurts my feelings I guess and in my previous relationship my ex loved to go down on me...he pays for me to get my nails done, takes me out to nice dinners and lunches, etc and I know his feelings are strong for me, but he's very selfish in bed.