Ok so I have this friend , she was due in January but unfortunately lost her baby when she was 24 weeks pregnant. Had to give birth to her baby, baby girl was alive for 24 minutes & she got to hold her for 6 hours. The hospital had a policy of not saving babies that young. TRUST ME I KNOW, dumbest policy I've ever heard in my life. She was already 10CM when she got to the hospital so if she had known about the policy she wouldn't have had time anyways to go anywhere else. My question is, I've asked her how she feels when her friends or family members announce being pregnant & she said she's not happy about it & she doesn't really care to know, which I completely understand. She's still really upset about losing her daughter & I know the pain will never go away. We've been friends for almost 5 years & im currently pregnant with my second and I'd rather not have her find out over social media. For those of you who have been in the same type situation as my friend, what would you have me do? Tell her ? Or just let her find out ?? BTW were really close, we tell each other

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