So I found out my brother who is 19 is having a baby with his girlfriend. Is it bad that I am frustrated and angry at the fact that he is haveing a baby? It seems like I have done everything right. I was on birth control through high school. I got married I’ve had 2 houses on my 3rd. My bills are getting paid my dogs are being fed, my husband and I are being fed...... but I’m not pregnant. Don’t get me wrong I am excited for him. But also feel like I have done everything right while he has just goofed off all his life bouncing from one job to the next. Always felt like I would be the one to have kids first. Uggg so frustrated. Is that bad?