My ex's mother won't leave me alone...

Victoria

So my ex and I ended our relationship over two years ago. We haven't spoken or seen each other since. In the three years my ex and I were together, his mom and I were never really close. She was a bit extreme and kind of a lot to take at times. Sometimes I felt like she didn't like me, others she referred to me as "her future daughter-in-law." I liked her well enough, it was just weird. Anyway. Here we are two years after the break up and she's tagging me in random things on Facebook and commenting on everything. Which wouldn't be a big deal, but yesterday she texted me out of the blue and asked what I thought about some local restaurant. I didn't text her back. I don't want to seem rude, it's just a little weird for me. She did this kind of stuff about a year ago too. Any time I see her out at the store or something she tells me how much she misses me and loves me. My ex has had a girlfriend for about a year and a half now. I don't really get why all of the sudden she's like this. I don't want to hurt her feelings, but this is a little much for me. It's been giving me crazy dreams about my ex, and thinking about him at all is something I put to rest a long time ago. I know she means no harm, but I don't know how much more of this I can handle without backtracking on the progress I worked really hard to make moving on from him.