Y’all. I’m single. I live in Charlotte but travel to New York a lot for work ... Like every week. Dating. Is. Hard. I’m over “the search” for the perfect guy and have decided that it’ll happen when it’s meant to happen. In the mean time, I’ll have a little (safe) fun. HOWEVER, I do NOT want a guy to tell me he has a “steady job, really good credit score, a big heart ...” AND “is pretty average everywhere else.” Like no, sir ... I do not want my guy to be average in bed. If I’m having sex with you, it better be mind blowing with multiple O’s. Call me selfish but sometimes I just need to be pleased with no strings attached. Anyone else? 🙋🏽‍♀️