So a little back story is that im 27 weeks pregnant with baby #2 and my husband and i live in my parents back house to save up to move out of state. The problem is in our area its really hard to find work but i finally found an amazing dr, my husband wasn't happy working part time because he felt it wasn't enough for our family so he started looking near his parents who have always offered us a room if we ever wanted to move in but they live about an hr 45 away and my husband would go stay the night for job interviews which i didn't mind. Well he went for a job interview and got offered on the spot which is great but now we have a little bump in the road. Because i finally have a great dr i told him i wasn't sure about leaving and he doesn't want to have to drive back and forth to work because its too far from our home so he was thinking moving in with his parents, im expecting a c section so i told him i wouldn't mind moving with him if he can make a exception to go with me to my drs still in the area that we currently live. He's hesitant about it and said i should just stay till the baby is born because i want to keep going to that dr but whats bothering me is why can't he make this one exception yet if he was to move he said he'd visit our daughter and i on his days off ...? Today he went for orientation and called me to let me know he was staying the night at his parents because of the traffic which is horrible but it might be my hormones making me emotional i just started thinking what if he starts being like this and just doesn't even visit if we were to live apart . How can i convince him that yes i do want to live with him but if he can just come with me to my dr appointments every once in a while .